Evolving Ideas to Make Better Financial Solutions and Experiments

I find that my ideas are continually evolving instead of being cast in stone (or near stone), and this works fine for me.

Ideas cast in stone

Some people see their idea before they even start to write their thoughts down.  It’s fully formed and they carve out all of the smallest details before they even take their first action.  Kind of like the way Mozart would do his compositions in his head and playing on the piano before writing it down to paper.  Beethoven was a direct contrast to Mozart, and although I’m no Beethoven, tend to follow a similar path with my ideas.

One of my most successful ideas that I’ve had on this blog is my “Lunch Dividend Experiment“, but this is not how the idea started!  The real formation of my Lunch Dividend Experiment began as a thought in a post called: “Paying an Adult Allowance“.  And to be honest, it actually went through a few other posts before the name “Lunch Dividend Experiment” was the title that I decided to stick with.

Another example of an idea that is still evolving for me (albeit much slower than the comparatively simple “Lunch Dividend Experiment”), is an article that I wrote called: Skipping The Inheritance, Creating Income Streams For My Kids.  This idea is still a work in process although I have invested some money for them into growth and dividends stocks.  I’m not really crazy about the length of the title, I need to simplify it and compress the ideas into a more actionable plan, but at least it’s a start.

The thing I find is that initially my ideas are not very clear, but usually somewhat original, or at least in my opinion, clever.  I’ve noticed that I was more forthcoming with such ideas when I started blogging, but then scaled back, perhaps because I wanted to be more professionally, or perhaps it was because of a few other bloggers that didn’t get it.  For instance one of my thoughts was called “Paying Off Your Mortgage is Like Working at a Second Job“, in it, one particular blogger tried to take the post in an entirely different path.  Instead of following the increased cashflow, the blogger focused on basic financial and tax specifics that were obvious.  This blogger missed the forest for the trees in that the amount of discretionary income in my pockets increased by over $1,000 once my mortgage was gone and I became totally debt free!

I’m determined that next year, I will no longer let such comments pollute the idea and crux of the posts that I create.  And so, I will again try to become more financially creative in my thoughts and experiments.

Here’s to the New Year!!!

MR

The Week Before The New Year

There aren’t many magical times in the year, but the week before New Years is one of them.

Why?  you might be wondering…

Reasons the Week Before New Years is Special:

  • This most productive time straddles the two holidays Christmas and New Years!
  • Most people have this time off because of two holidays being so close together.
  • This is an incredible time when many see friends and family not typically seen.
  • While this is a resting period when many parents play with their children in new games and other activities.
  • The week is a paradox of time, where people are both more restful and more active mentally at the same time.
  • This is the time when planning for the next year happen

Okay, above I mentioned the paradox of time, which is the entire basis of this post!  I find it fascinating that many of us take off the time between Christmas and New Years, and during that time we rest the most and at the same time we pull out of the ether our entire plans for the following year!  If that’s not magical, then what is?

At  the end of year 2010, I decided to keep it loose and just let what happens happen…  In one sense that experiment was an incredible flop in that I didn’t really did get any traction on any of the loose goals that I half imagined that I would undertake.  But on the other had it was a great success in that I’ve been able to take a very deep analysis of my life and the way that it’s being consumed by time.  This has enabled me to realize that I do have room to improve it.

In 2011, I’ve come up with what I consider some interesting new ideas, many of which I’ll choose and track in the coming new year.  So while I physically rest on my couch writing stuff on my laptop, I’ll be thinking hard creatively and in a goal oriented fashion!

So hopefully this “week before the new year” will be a magically productive time for me creatively!

MR

Christmas 2011

Well, I’m enjoying Christmas, but thought if you were at this site, you could check out the following videos!

 

U2 Baby Please Come Home (my wife’s favorite song):

 

Blue Christmas (Porky Pig version) Classic:

 

Last Christmas (Chipmunk’s version, Daughter’s pick)

 

Baby It’s Cold Outside (Elf the movie version, with Zooey Deschanel)

 

Santa Claus is Coming To Town (Zooey Dechanel again).


I especially like the part in the movie “Elf” when Zooey sings “Santa Claus is coming to Town”.  The song is just okay, but the way that the writers have the character played by Zooey get up, face her fears and pretty much save Christmas by putting it all out there on the line was incredible.  I especially like the scene where Will Ferrel look out of the sleigh, and Zooey is looking up smiling at him.  What an awesome scene!

Here is wishing you a Merry Christmas!

MR

Christmas Dinner Tradition 2011

Every year in December, we (my wife, kids and I) take out annual Christmas Dinner Tradition  trip to our favorite Christmastime restaurant: the 356th Fighter Group.

356th Fighter Group Restaurant

356th Fighter Group Restaurant

 

It’s a very original looking restaurant with a stucco exterior with chunks missing exposing the underlying bricks.  This creates the illusion that the building has weathered some hardships during a war.  Actually thinking clearly, this has to be one of the best theme-oriented restaurants that I’ve even been to.

Why this restaurant is our traditional Christmas Dinner Restaurant?

Much of it has to do with my childhood.  My family didn’t go out to eat much when I was a kids, but when my Aunt and Uncle from Delaware came over to visit, they treated us all to dinner.  My uncle had been to a restaurant similar to the 356th restaurant, and suggested that we go there.  At first I didn’t want to go (I think I was 8 or 9 years old), not really feeling comfortable going out to eat, since we didn’t do that much in my childhood.  But once my parents put their foot down, off I went.

The first unique feature of the restaurant I noticed as a kid was the parking lot had all of these old beat-up wartime vehicles, much like what they would have looked like if they were still active.

356th Fighter Group Parking lot

 

The things that really sold me on making this a Christmas Tradition was the fact that my kids got to watch the airplanes take off and land because the restaurant is beside an airport, and the cool headphones that you could listen to and hear the air traffic control center.  It was always neat to hear the air traffic controllers instruct the planes.  In the present though, the restaurant removed the headphones and stopped the listening to the air traffic controller communications though (perhaps because of security?).

The Restaurant Decor

The decor inside is as good as the exterior!  The restaurants have pieces of planes mounted to the ceiling, and tons of pictures from the war with the various captains and other such things from the past.  It’s like a different world!

356th fighter group sand bags

daughter with sand bags above

 

 

Not a very Frugal Christmas Dinner Tradition

Unlike many of the articles that I have written in the past, this is not a frugal experience.  The prices average over $20 per entrée, and while this isn’t horrible, it’s not cheap either.

When my wife and I were younger, we had a good time going to this restaurant, but I have to admit, I always would cringe once we got the bill.  Now that we have kids and are older, the prices seem more affordable.  I no longer cringe upon receiving the bill and overall enjoy the experience much better than I use to.

Our 2011 Christmas Tradition Dinner Experience

Snow would have been nice, but the drive on the way down to the restaurant, in the rain, while listening to Christmas music, was still enjoyable.  Even though it’s much more enjoyable seeing the planes take off with snow floating down from the sky, it was still pretty awesome and the kids seemed to enjoy it.

This year the restaurant had a musician perform.  He was a solo act, but was a good singer and played the piano very well!  It was a nice surprise.

So while the weather didn’t really add to the enjoyment, it was still a great experiences (as usual).

Happy Holidays,

MR